Who is Pillars of Strength?

Losing a child at birth (or at any time) is one of the most painful and devastating experiences that someone can go through. Sadly, so many men, once excited at the prospect of being a dad (many for the first time), never get to experience a “normal” childbirth. Some also never get to experience a “normal” fatherhood at all.

These men are part of a group that swells by over 3,000 new members each year through stillbirth, neonatal or infant loss. A grieving father feels the loss of a child just as keenly as the mother. Although men don’t express themselves like women do, it does not mean that we grieve any less.

Pillars of Strength was formed in 2008 by Gary Sillett when his son Isaac died and he found that there was nothing out there to help dads going through this terrible time.

Since launch, Pillars of Strength has engaged and assisted hundreds, if not thousands, of men in their grief journey through the provision of timeout opportunities and events where dads connected with their mates, family and dads, and created new communities and networks.

Pillars has run more than 160 events for bereaved dads across five states and territories

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We remain the only organisation in Australia that provides services exclusively for Bereaved Dads.
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What some of our dads have to say

We feel extremely lucky to have George in our lives for only a short period of time and he tried his best to stay with us. My only wish is that he could have stayed a bit longer. Jarrod Maher
I have found that each birthday has been a bit more bearable than the last, although I still kind of want to just survive the day in one piece. Matt Sylvester
Though I may not speak of that day or our daughter as much as my wife I still have my own way to honour my daughter. She will always be missed and my love for her will always be strong. Ryan Calkin

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Pillars of Strength is a community of Bereaved Dads, their mates, families and people who provide support and services. Membership is free and it's simple to join up.

So that we can help you, or your mate, we need to know who you are - joining up enrols you in our secure membership database where you can choose how much information you share with other members.

Join our Community

Pillars of Strength is a community of Bereaved Dads, their mates, families and people who provide support and services. Membership is free and it's simple to join up.

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Many of our donors and sponsors understand there is a woeful lack of support for grieving fathers. You can help by making a donation.

All donations over $2 are tax-deductible

This is the spot to give us money

Many of our donors and sponsors understand there is a woeful lack of support for grieving fathers. You can help by making a donation.

All donations over $2 are tax-deductible

Thanks for your interest

We run Pillars of Strength on a very tight budget. We spend our money on providing opportunities for Bereaved Dads and keep our administrative costs as low as possible. That said, for us to bring Pillars of Strength to Dads across Australia, we need funds.

We really want to get to know you - please tell us who you are, then we can start a conversation about how sponsoring Pillars of Strength could be great for you and your organisation as well as fantastic for us.

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If you can put us in touch with the person at your organisation who can take this forward, we would be really grateful. We’ve done the heavy lifting for you. Just cut and paste the text below into an email, customise as you see fit and send!

I don’t know if you have heard of this amazing charity, but I think we should be helping them out by sponsoring them.

Pillars of Strength (https://pillarsofstrength.com.au) is an Australian charity that provides support for Bereaved Dads who have lost a baby or infant child. in Australia, this happens roughly 3,000 times every year! That’s 8 babies every day!

There is lots of support out there for the mums, but almost nothing – apart from Pillars of Strength – for the Dads. 1 in every 100 men in the workforce have suffered this loss – imagine how many men here are affected – and we probably don’t even know who they are!

Sponsoring Pillars of Strength will benefit not only the Dads directly affected, but their mates and colleagues who either didn’t know or weren’t comfortable to talk about it.

The charity can provide sponsorship packages tailored to us, including: staff engagement at events, promotional opportunities, tiered sponsorship arrangements

They have some awesome videos showing how they help Dads – check out this one (https://pillarsofstrength.com.au/sponsorvideo) that also gives us some more detailed information on how they would spend the money.

Thanks for taking the time to review this request, and I look forward to discussing it with you!

Sincerely,

Partnering with Pillars of Strength